The Bilateral Journey from Mentorship to Colleagueship and Friendship in an EdD Leadership Program
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mentee-mentor collaboration, virtual doctoral mentorship, professional relationship buildingAbstract
The aim of this reflective essay is to demonstrate the transformative journey from a doctoral mentor-mentee relationship to one of colleagues and friends, highlighting the influence of the education doctorate on research and leadership practices. As is common in many mentoring relationships, the primary objective is to foster learning. This exceptional experience proved to be mutually advantageous for both the mentor and mentee. Now, two years after their initial pairing, the duo reflects on their journey toward their current professional collaboration, supported by relevant literature. This essay examines the key elements of a successful mentor-mentee relationship that extends beyond the completion of the degree to further academic endeavors. Specifically, we illustrate how communication, shared values, and commitment are interconnected components that enhance the quality of mentorship, ultimately leading to long-term, productive partnerships.
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